Mediation

Can You Recognize When You're Being "Reality Tested"?

Mediation

Can You Recognize When You're Being "Reality Tested"?

NOTE:  The following text will appear as a chapter in a mediator skills volume to be published soon by the International Bar Association, edited by mediator Patricia Barclay of Bonaccord Ecosse Limited, in Edinburgh, Scotland.                 Reality testing is the technique of inviting a party to adjust his perceptions of the claim. ...

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Mediation

Mediation Confidentiality Meets Attorney Malpractice

Mediation

Mediation Confidentiality Meets Attorney Malpractice

While working for a company, a guy opens up a competing business and lures away customers.  He is sued by his employer for fraud and breach of fiduciary duty.  Prior to trial he participates in a mediation, that is unsuccessful.  At trial he loses and is found liable for $364,000 in...

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Negotiation|Teaching

Understanding Interests Means Adding Value

Negotiation|Teaching

Understanding Interests Means Adding Value

I told my wife that I wanted to do the following exercise with my 50-person ADR survey class at New York Law School: "Find a partner and face each other.  Touch your palms together about face-level and then grasp each other's hand.  The person who can get the other person's hand past their...

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Conflict Resolution|systems design

Theory Becomes Practice: A Project with Built-In Conflict Prevention

Conflict Resolution|systems design

Theory Becomes Practice: A Project with Built-In Conflict Prevention

From the invaluable BASESwiki comes news of just the development I and others have pounded the table about:  A long-term project that features a formal and permanent "canary-in-the-mine" that identifies and addresses problems early on, and successfully prevents conflicts....

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Negotiation

Some Helpful Principles of Competitive Negotiation

Negotiation

Some Helpful Principles of Competitive Negotiation

Christian Duve is a handsome, very bright, very perceptive attorney mediator practicing with Freshfields Bruckhaus Deringer in Frankfurt, Germany.  I have known and admired him for many years and recently learned a lot (once again) listening to a conversation he held with GE's Michael McIlwrath on negotiation techniques....

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